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diff --git a/memos/WM-034.txt b/memos/WM-034.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..c66f327 --- /dev/null +++ b/memos/WM-034.txt @@ -0,0 +1,71 @@ + + + + + + + +Document: WM-034 P. Webb +Category: How to Be Awesome 2018.08.22 + + The Fallacy of Imposter Syndrome + +Abstract + + Who's holding the carrot? + +Body + + You (or, someone you know) has claimed to suffer from imposter + syndrome at some point in time. But what IS it, really? + + > "Impostor syndrome" is a psychological pattern in which an + > individual doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent + > internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud", despite external + > evidence of their competence. + + I'm speaking from the lens of someone firmly entrenched in the web + industry, but what I'm about to say applies anywhere. Imposter + syndrome appears to be a very real threat to the psyche. It has + occurred to me that maybe…it's NOT. + + Y'see, when people reach the next plateau of their career they begin + to compare themselves against impossible odds. They look at the + "superstar" members of their industry, they look at their peers of + similar standing, *they look at everything around and beyond them*. I + mean, just check out that VIEW! What happens next ~~will~~ won't + shock you. + + > How did I get here? I don't *belong* here! What if they kNoW?! + + These are questions people ask themselves instead of the one that + *matters* as they turn around: + + > *Wow*, I really came THIS far? 🤩 + + Our fast-paced society and the scripted nature of social media where + we only display accomplishments and accolades encourages us to keep + our figurative necks on a swivel. *Mentally, we ALL have full range + of motion.* Not just laterally and up, but backwards too! It's + important to acknowledge your accomplishments to yourself. + Internalize it. Believe it! + + Let's think about this another way. + + Imagine someone riding a horse with a long stick in hand. On that + stick is an equally long string with a carrot tied to the end. The + horse sees the carrot and starts to trot towards it. The horse jockey + moves the carrot when they want the horse to change direction. Now, + replace the carrot with everything you saw on that plateau and the + horse with yourself. PLOT TWIST, you are ALSO the horse jockey. + + WHUUUUUH?! + + Get off the horse and give them a salt lick for doing a ~~great~~ + *fantastic* job. Huh, interesting…that salt lick is suspiciously + similar to your personal accomplishments. + + TL;DR + + You're awesome. Stop beating yourself up. Stop and smell the roses + of your accomplishments thus far. Know when to use blinders. 🕸 |
