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+Document: WM-034 P. Webb
+Category: How to Be Awesome 2018.08.22
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+ The Fallacy of Imposter Syndrome
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+Abstract
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+ Who's holding the carrot?
+
+Body
+
+ You (or, someone you know) has claimed to suffer from imposter
+ syndrome at some point in time. But what IS it, really?
+
+ > "Impostor syndrome" is a psychological pattern in which an
+ > individual doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent
+ > internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud", despite external
+ > evidence of their competence.
+
+ I'm speaking from the lens of someone firmly entrenched in the web
+ industry, but what I'm about to say applies anywhere. Imposter
+ syndrome appears to be a very real threat to the psyche. It has
+ occurred to me that maybe…it's NOT.
+
+ Y'see, when people reach the next plateau of their career they begin
+ to compare themselves against impossible odds. They look at the
+ "superstar" members of their industry, they look at their peers of
+ similar standing, *they look at everything around and beyond them*. I
+ mean, just check out that VIEW! What happens next ~~will~~ won't
+ shock you.
+
+ > How did I get here? I don't *belong* here! What if they kNoW?!
+
+ These are questions people ask themselves instead of the one that
+ *matters* as they turn around:
+
+ > *Wow*, I really came THIS far? 🤩
+
+ Our fast-paced society and the scripted nature of social media where
+ we only display accomplishments and accolades encourages us to keep
+ our figurative necks on a swivel. *Mentally, we ALL have full range
+ of motion.* Not just laterally and up, but backwards too! It's
+ important to acknowledge your accomplishments to yourself.
+ Internalize it. Believe it!
+
+ Let's think about this another way.
+
+ Imagine someone riding a horse with a long stick in hand. On that
+ stick is an equally long string with a carrot tied to the end. The
+ horse sees the carrot and starts to trot towards it. The horse jockey
+ moves the carrot when they want the horse to change direction. Now,
+ replace the carrot with everything you saw on that plateau and the
+ horse with yourself. PLOT TWIST, you are ALSO the horse jockey.
+
+ WHUUUUUH?!
+
+ Get off the horse and give them a salt lick for doing a ~~great~~
+ *fantastic* job. Huh, interesting…that salt lick is suspiciously
+ similar to your personal accomplishments.
+
+ TL;DR
+
+ You're awesome. Stop beating yourself up. Stop and smell the roses
+ of your accomplishments thus far. Know when to use blinders. 🕸